I often met friends in the past two days and asked me if my child has been good. It is not particularly difficult to get, but how can I suddenly change and become more than one year old and two years old, always "no no no", small The little baby is really upset enough to be rebellious. What should I do? OK also has this stage, always "no no no", my mother who helps me take care of OK every day, no less vomiting with him, take a bath to negotiate for a long time and finally directly rude clothes; eat a meal to pull for a long time and finally forcibly put food chair. Of course, every time this is so complete, the chicken flying dog does not say, the effect is particularly bad, the time is long, OK the grandmother said "no" frequency is higher than anyone else. However, I haven’t been bothered by this problem, because I haven’t taken the OK’s “no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. Face the baby's stubbornness, and seriously you will lose, absolutely enough for you to toss. Today, I will come and tell you how we can send the T2 god away. 1 What are the terrorist manifestations of a one or two year old child? A child of one or two years old has just begun to wake up and gradually realizes the existence of "I". Therefore, he wants to prove himself to be independent through his own actions. This is the necessary stage for the normal development of the child's mind, but also because of the emergence. Emotional changes are quick, easy to lose temper, often crying casually, like to say "no", and called "terrible two years old" Terrible 2. This stage is often not limited to two years old, and may last from one and a half years to three years old. >>> Noisy, full of mouth saying "no", you must not take it seriously When I was two years old, I liked to say two words "Don't" and told him that these three words responded. In fact, at this stage, most children will have this uncooperative stage of saying “no†when they open their mouths. Because they are so big, they can show more needs than they say "no" can show domineering side leakage. At this time, they have entered a new stage of self-conscious leap. If you can't read his small eyes in time and can't handle his information, the child will feel quite wrong, and he can only use his temper, scream, etc. The method lets us perceive his little universe. In fact, the baby who said "no" in the sky is really not annoying, but it is both cute and pitiful. Is it true that we really want to take the child's "don't" seriously? Set the old saying: Seriously you lose. When the baby said no, this means that his sense of independence has sprouted. He wants to do things in his own way, instead of following the instructions. Then, we have only two choices: permission and no permission. If the child is allowed to refuse and proceed in the way he wants, then he will let him go; if it is not allowed, there is no conflict, there are many techniques to avoid the consequences of both losses. Some tips for coping can be found later. >>> No way to listen, sometimes it is a good opportunity to teach children to give up Two-year-old children often have a stubborn temper. When his son was two years old, he took him a few bus rides. He liked it very much, especially when he took my bus IC card and brushed the machine and made a "beep". For a whole few months, I woke up every day and found my bus IC card and asked me to take him to the bus. I kept talking about the “bus card†in my mouth. Of course, I can't go out every day, so those days are just taking him down the community. As long as our mother and the elevator go out of the corridor, he is like a pony with a reins and goes straight to the community gate to go out. bus. At this time, if it is hard, it will be a farce that is crying and robbing. The waywardness is also the characteristics that began to appear in many children around the age of two, and letting them do their own subjective preferences, without fear, often makes adults worry about becoming a yak in the future. But in fact, the waywardness of early childhood is not a character, but a manifestation of psychological needs. During this period, children's participation in consciousness and self-awareness was greatly enhanced, and the criteria for distinguishing between right and wrong, self-control, security awareness, and even the moral bottom line of all these adult worlds were completely absent, but they only had to make an idea. The mind is only responsible for his own action, and the person who “has no heart and lungs†naturally does not care about the feelings of others, and once confronted, there will be strong resistance. Although this kind of behavior will make many adults think that they are disobedient and hateful, but in my opinion, every wayward proposition is a good opportunity for the children to be satisfied or to teach the children to give up, it depends on whether the parents' persuasion skills are superb~ 2 The extent and duration of T2 is directly related to parents Although most of the parenting knowledge will tell you that the reason for T2 is that the baby's self-awareness begins to awaken and begins to want to be independent, but what the mom wants to say is that if the child's T2 performance is always repeated endlessly, Then there is a more important reason, that is, parents are not accompanied enough, and the means of coping are insufficient. T2 is a Western word. The reason why there is a proper noun such as T2 indicates that these terrible phenomena are also the "sickness" of Xiong Wa in the world. Parents and parents will also be mad at this trouble. Although we will see many articles praising the Western full-time mothers for their procrastination, how effective they are, their efficient operation is indeed true, but people's energy and time are limited, even if one-to-many can make children full. There are plenty of toys and big gardens to play crazy, but when the child asks his mother to accompany him and hug, he may be busy bathing his little brother or little sister, or busy with the whole family. It is also difficult to do "required". The requirements of the child before the age of two are very simple and very rude. Sometimes he wants you to tease him, pull his little hand, give him a high, as long as you respond and do it, his sense of security is fully. However, if it is always difficult to meet, although the years are quiet, he will gradually get used to solving it, but the long-term backlog of too many unresponsive needs, the child's sense of security will be missing. From my own experience, children who deal with T2 really need a lot of time and patience. Once I was playing at the code word son. Suddenly, the QQ sound on my computer caused the son's curiosity, so I must climb my chair to ponder my computer. Although I am really reluctant to be disturbed at the moment, I know that my son has been exploring with a heart at the moment, and blocking will only lead to war. I simply put everything down on my hands, opened the folder where QQ stored the sound, and listened to him one by one, and spent 20 minutes properly. There is too much time, just because the child needs to do it but can't do it alone. The mother can only stay with me silently. For example, when he washes his hand, he suddenly asks to play with water. Well, my mother will accompany me. In the end, it was more than an hour until he was happy. 3 How do I spend my son's T2 leisurely? It is necessary to easily spend the child's T2, prepare enough time and energy to meet the child's requirements, or even just to clean up the house. In a way, if the child's exploration behavior can be satisfied, when he climbs the sofa, we quietly keep it aside as long as it is safe to catch him when he falls on the air, when he plays with water to play garbage When we can quietly clean up the scene of the disaster, the probability of conflict will be less than half. But after all, we need to arrange for life, and there are many behaviors that violate the safety bottom line. We must stop it. Therefore, in order to avoid making it too ugly, we still have to put a few weapons in our pockets. When the child's temper comes up, it will be stable. Tools to control the situation. Share a few of my own few tried and tested ways. Transfer attention My son has always liked taking a bath all the time, and suddenly he said that he would not take a shower. That day, the grandmother went to take a bath like a eagle catching a chicken like a chicken. When she saw her grandmother, she took out the old saying, "You don't wash your grandmother and don't like you." I think this chase can stop. I went to my son and said, "Baby, let's go bathing." The son still replied, "Don't be," and began to hide from me, not letting me approach. I kept a distance with him and said, "Oh, baby doesn't want to take a shower today? Well, but the duckling is waiting for us in the bathroom." Seeing his son had a hesitant expression, I immediately approached him and continued: " You don't want to take a shower?†The son said, “I don't want to take a shower.†I said, “Well, then we don't take a shower, let's go see the little duck.†So, I have succeeded in the first step, my son took my hand and walked into the bathroom without crying. 2. Different words and deeds When I walked into the bathroom, my son saw a large basin of water and began to insist: "I don't want to take a shower." Hey, kid, your mom, I’ve cheated you in, you don’t want to run away. I’m thinking about holding him tighter, and I’m not saying, “Oh, okay, We don't take a shower, then, let's swim with the ducklings, and my mother will sing a few duck songs to you~~ A group of ducks downstream of the bridge..." The son has been taken away by me. At this point, the son has no resistance, and he sat down in the tub. For a child whose mantra is “noâ€, we really don’t have to pursue this “no†word. Instead, we can follow “no†to do what we need to do. 3. Take advantage of the trend After taking a shower, my son wrapped up in a bath towel and went back to the bedroom. When he took off his bath towel, he ran around and tried to dress with his grandmother. Grandma was afraid that his son was frozen, and he was anxious and angry. It was a sentence: "Grandma doesn't like you." The face also hangs down. Another sentence that inspires the child's "fight", the son's angry expression of seeing the grandmother jumped up and down and jumped to the ground, and there was no convergence. Seeing this scene, it is too late to transfer attention to this move. I simply played the game of the eagle catching the chicken with my son. After a full 5 minutes, my son’s sense of resilience disappeared completely. I picked up my son and said, “Hey, tired of my mother, I almost couldn’t catch the baby,†said one quickly. I put on my son’s clothes, but I don’t mention the words “wearing clothesâ€. When we want to persuade the child to cooperate with one thing, the timing is especially important. First, the child's most urgent desire is met. The latter cooperation is naturally easy. 4. Appropriately spoiled The son often likes to smash things, and has not completely quit until now. Behind this behavior, there are different emotional expressions, sometimes boring, sometimes venting, sometimes trying to attract attention, and sometimes just feeling fun. Compared with the first three cases, if you just feel fun, it is more difficult to stop, and often it will stop more and more. In this case, I will take out the trick of coquetry, deliberately smashed something by my son, and then pretend to cry and cry: "Hey, it hurts, hey," When the son stopped, he stared at me and stared at his son. I then installed it. "It hurts, come and give it to my mother." When the baby has an independent consciousness, the most delicious one is that you are weak. Usually, the parents who are always strong and disciplined suddenly become weaker than him. The unreasonable baby will also have a soft heart and pity the parents. Using sympathy to stop the behavior of swearing things, although it is not a long-term solution to the problem of licking things, we need to understand that children's swearing things are not necessarily bad behaviors to stop, these are the child's legitimate behavior. 5. Close contact One time my son was playing with his own electric car, the one he could sit in, especially after playing for half an hour, suddenly began to ask for the car to turn over. This is not an ordinary toy car. Such a large electric car can't be turned over at all. But no matter how reasonable it is with him, he just plays with it. Thinking about the whole background, I realized that my son was just sleepy. I have already passed the usual nap. Once my son is quiet for half an hour, people will be easily trapped when they are quiet. I picked up my son and let him lean against my shoulder like when I was back to the baby. The whole person instantly became a soft little rabbit from an angry little hedgehog. The children in the T2 stage are actually just transitioning from a baby to an early childhood. In many cases, there will be irritations and ecstasy in infancy. Some babies are transitioning from one day to two at this stage, so they often start to get sleepy when they eat lunch, which makes them special when they eat lunch. They start to play without a few mouthfuls. Basically, only when the child has no special reason, suddenly start to make trouble, that is, physical conditions such as anger and fatigue. The best way to do this is to pick up the child and relieve his irritability and discomfort. 6. Assign tasks Rather than always passively satisfying their independent exploration at the child's request, it is better to take the initiative to make more opportunities for children to enjoy themselves in their daily lives. When I am with my son, I will give it to him as long as I can give it to my son. 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