Force sharing Good friend Kally's golden sentence: share, don't share it! Spontaneous and enjoyable sharing requires five steps: Step1: Let the children fully own their own items Step2: Let the child completely control his own items Step3: Thus the child establishes a clear property boundary Step4: Spontaneous sharing, enjoy the fun of exchange Step5: Items become communication tools Write on the wall My brother respects other people's things and is happy to share his things, because he has absolute control over his own things, and the children he truly owns will share them voluntarily. Since my sister was born, I have clearly indicated that many items are my brother's, and my brother decided how to use it. The younger sister used the consent of his brother and used the forgiveness of his brother . It was really troublesome at first! Chicken flying dogs, often my brother called my sister to cry, her husband does not support: "It's all family, too care! What are the two cups!" But let me give you an example. If I only buy books that I bought for you, the final book is to grab and toss a few pages. I learned to be smart and said, "Brother, this is the book you bought for you!" Brother will be excited to say: "Yeah, this is my book! Sister, let's see it together!" He can dominate his book, It is a very happy thing. I will also say: "Sister, this is your book, you can discuss with your brother whether you want to exchange." My sister is two and a half years old, others take her things, she will firmly say: "mine!no!stop!" When encountering strangers who love to force the baby to share, be sure to teach the baby to refuse. "If the younger brother is young, can't you give him a play?" "Oh, no!" "How are you so stingy, play together." What if the child’s needs are not met? 1. Always pay attention to things that are not satisfied, unable to concentrate on developing yourself , staying in a relatively low-level psychological stage, and unable to communicate. 2. Easy to grab or secretly take other people's things; 3. Some children will please other children for the purpose ; 4. Some children will easily control others . If you don't give me, I won't play with you. My sister loves to eat oranges, but Dad thinks the oranges are on fire, moisture, and can't eat too much. I don't think it's okay, let her eat enough. I ate ten oranges that night, and even a few days of happy oranges with big bags went to school to share with classmates. I really don't bother to remind my children to share and fully satisfy the children's reasonable needs. When the child reaches the age of 5, they will naturally become willing to share. By the age of 7 or so, they can feel more fun in sharing, and there is a foreign share. The characteristics of age sharing, I put the original text in the attached text, interested to see. Adult, please let go of your desire to control (Swipe up to read) Your child is not actually your child. --- Gibran Your children are not your children. They are children born of life's desire for themselves. They came to the world with you, but they didn’t come because of you. They are by your side, but they are not yours. What you can give them is your love, but not your thoughts, because they have their own thoughts. You can shelter their bodies, but not their souls, because their souls belong to tomorrow, It belongs to tomorrow that you can’t dream of, You can do your best and become like them, But don't let them become like you, Because life will not retreat, nor stay in the past. You are a bow, and children are arrows that are shot from you. The archer looks at the target of the road in the future, He tried his best to pull you away, so that his arrow shot fast and far. With a happy mood, bend in the hands of the archers, because he loves the arrows flying all the way, and loves the stable bow. Guangzhou Vast Internation Trade Co.,Ltd , https://www.tintsfeast.com
